Understanding Anxiety

UNDERSTANDING ANXIETY

Stress affects us all, but we each have a different way of dealing with it. Some of us can quickly move on with our day, some of us can transfer that stress into physical activity, like running. But a large number of us find difficulty coping with life’s challenges, and tend to over-analyze and allow our minds to spiral into a dark place that makes carrying on with our day next to impossible.

As humans, we are naturally driven by fear, stress, and peer pressure to perform to the best of our ability to prevent failure. So to an extent, anxiety for most people is normal, short-lived, and can be overcome. However, for many, those brief moments of fear can linger too long, trigger other feelings and emotions, and cause panic attacks or other symptoms — This is called generalized anxiety disorder. Anxiety disorders affect approximately 30 percent of adults in the United States and are the leading cause of mental illness. In general, treatment consists of psychotherapy, medication, and lifestyle changes.

Keep in mind that there are different types of anxiety. Some types are social anxiety, panic disorder, or symptoms related to post-traumatic stress. A person could also have feelings of nervousness and worry about things that might not happen. In any event, it is important to find ways to reduce anxiety in our lives. I wrote another blog post on some activities that can be used to cope with and manage symptoms of anxiety. You can review them here.

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Source:

https://adaa.org/understanding-anxiety#

25 Self-Care Ideas You Can do Every day For Your Mental Health

25 Self-Care Ideas you can do every day.

What is Self-care?

Self-care means taking the time to do things in life that you enjoy and taking care of yourself. As a mental health counselor, I must practice self-care on a regular basis to prevent burnout. In this blog, I will share 25 self- care ideas that you can do to take care of your mental health.

  1. Journal – this is my favorite and practice this daily.

  2. Listen to music -Find some relaxing music to listen to.

  3. Give yourself a facial – I like the charcoal mask.

  4. Sleep in- Make sure you get plenty of rest.

  5. Watch a wholesome movie – Amazon or Netflix

  6. Light a candle – Yankee Candles are my favorite

  7. Meditation – Download the Calm App

  8. Sing your favorite song or create a playlist

  9. Take a warm bath – add lavender for relaxation

  10. Sit at the park

  11. Recite positive affirmations

  12. Call someone and tell them you love them

  13. Write a letter – mail it or not

  14. Cook a simple meal – invite someone over

  15. Take a nature walk

  16. Coloring/Doodling

  17. Do some yoga stretches

  18. Read a book

  19. Plan out your next day

  20. Forgive yourself

  21. Forgive others

  22. Exercise

  23. Set boundaries

  24. Say No

  25. Eat healthily

Keep in mind that practicing self-care can help improve mood and reduce stress.

Comment below and share some you practice self-care.

Eliminate Toxic People From Your Life

Eliminate Toxic People From Your Life

Saying goodbye to toxic people may be easier said than done. But you’re worth it!  Just like negativity breeds negativity, the same goes for positivity. To start the process of eliminating toxic people from your life, you need to identify the Debbie Downers.  Who in your life leaves you feeling down after interactions? If a relationship is weighing on you more than it’s building you up, it’s time to let go.  Now I know what you’re thinking, what about people who are permanent fixtures in your life, such as family members? My answer to that is there’s no reason to put up with people saying or doing unkind things.  The key to protecting yourself from toxic relationships is setting boundaries.  First, identify your physical, emotional, mental, and spiritual limits. What makes you feel uncomfortable or stressed?  Some relationships will require a direct conversation about your boundaries, while others won’t. Merely tuning into your feelings can be enough to tell you a boundary is being crossed, and you need to remove yourself for the conversation.  Fear is a universal emotion that holds us back from sticking to our boundaries. For example, we might fear other’s responses if we set and enforce our boundaries. Feeling guilty by speaking up or saying no to a family member is another common fear.  Give yourself permission to set boundaries and work to preserve them.  Two cues that signal you that you’re letting go of our boundaries are discomfort and resentment.  Once you learn your boundaries and live within them, you’ll feel lighter and much happier.  Have you eliminated toxic people?  Share your comment below. 

What makes you happy

What makes you happy?

When trying to make ourselves happy, it’s easy to get wrapped up in accomplishing goals or holding ourselves to ever-greater standards of perfection. But in reality, this is not the path to happiness. 

If you’ve ever said, “I’ll be happy when ___,” you’re in good company. The problem is happiness isn’t something you achieve or obtain. It’s a state of being. So stop putting off being happy, and accept yourself as you are right now. 

You don’t have to like everything about yourself or your current situation. But, accepting who and where you are will give you the freedom to be happy now, and will bring you closer to achieving those lofty ambitions. 

It’s important to have goals and something to work towards. However, placing unrealistic expectations on yourself will only set you up for failure. Instead of setting a goal of making a certain amount of money by a certain age, make it a challenge for yourself, and set smaller goals to get you there. 

The same goes for relationship goals and self-image. You can choose to be happy today, right now, but accepting your life as it is rather than how you think it should be. 

How do you define happiness? Comment below and share with someone who you think can benefit from this post.

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Staying Healthy with Natural Remedies

Staying Healthy with Natural Remedies

You’re feeling the signs of a cold or flu, but unsure of which over-the-counter products to use—considered this herbal approach. Derived from a root, bark stem or seed, herbal medicine has been used for centuries to help the body fight against infection and heal itself.

The following list of herbs can be purchased at your local health food store or from an herbalist.

Remember, if you are under doctors’ care, consult with your physician before taking any nutritional supplements. Also, avoid high-level stress activities and fatigue that can lower your immune system, which makes you more susceptible to catching a cold, says clinical nurse Linda Moseley of Bridgeport CT.

ECHINACEA
A Native American wild select flower is commonly used to prevent and treat colds and flu. Research shows that echinacea stimulates the immune system, helping the body defend itself against bacterial infections. It is available in various forms.

GOLDENSEAL
Goldenseal is a powerful antibiotic to help fight colds, flu, and other infections. It is available in capsules or tablets.

GARLIC
Garlic provides a wealth of health benefits this pungent herb has antiviral and antibacterial properties. Research shows that garlic can lower blood pressure and blood cholesterol levels. It also supplies a variety of other vital nutrients.

GINGER
Often used to help relieve a sore throat or stomach flu. Eileen Marley, herbalist in Glen Burnie, MD recommends adding a teaspoon of ginger to your bath water and soak in it for 30 minutes to help the body release toxins.

PEPPERMINT
Peppermint contains menthol and is used to help clear up chest congestion. Peppermint tea in tablets can also help a dry cough.

If, after all your efforts, you still develop a cold this season, eat citrus fruit and leafy green vegetables, it has vitamin C and antioxidants, which helps to build up the immune system.

One of my favorite books on eating healthy is Staying Healthy with Seasons by Elson M. Hass.

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The 8 Causes of Cravings

The body is amazing. It knows when to go to sleep, wake up, go to the bathroom, maintain 98.6 degrees, and tighten the eyes when the light gets bright. It knows the miracle of pregnancy and childbirth. Your heart never misses a beat. Your lungs are always breathing. The body is a super-computer, and it never makes mistakes.

Look at the foods, deficits, and behaviors in your life that are the underlying causes of your cravings. Many people view cravings as weakness, but really, they are important messages meant to assist you in maintaining balance. When you experience a craving, deconstruct it. Ask yourself, what does my body want and why?

The 8 primary causes of cravings are:

1. Dehydration. The body doesn’t send the message that you are thirsty until you are on the verge of dehydration. Dehydration occurs as a mild hunger, so the first thing to do when you get a strange craving is to drink a full glass of water.

2. Lack of primary food. Being dissatisfied with a relationship, or having an inappropriate exercise routine (too much, too little, or the wrong type), being bored, stressed, uninspired by a job, or lacking a spiritual practice, may all cause emotional eating. Eating can be used as a substitute for entertainment, or to fill the void of primary food.

3. Yin/yang imbalance. Certain foods have more yin qualities (expansive) while other foods have more yang qualities (contractive). Eating foods that are either extremely yin or extremely yang causes cravings in order to maintain balance. For example, eating a diet too rich in sugar (yin) may cause a craving for meat (yang). Eating too many raw foods (yin) may cause cravings for extremely cooked (dehydrated) foods or vise versa.

4. Inside coming out. Oftentimes, cravings come from foods that we have recently eaten, foods eaten by our ancestors or foods from our childhood. A clever way to satisfy these cravings is to eat a healthier version of one’s ancestral or childhood foods.

5. Seasonal. Often the body craves foods that balance out the elements of the season. In the spring, people crave detoxifying foods like leafy greens or citrus foods. In the summer, people crave cooling foods like fruit, raw foods, and ice cream, and in the fall, people crave grounding foods like squash, onions and nuts. During winter many crave hot and heat-producing foods like meat, oil, and fat. Cravings can also be associated with the holidays, for foods like turkey, eggnog, or sweets, etc.

6. Lack of nutrients. If the body has inadequate nutrients, it will produce odd cravings. For example, inadequate mineral levels produce salt cravings, overall inadequate nutrition produces cravings for non-nutritional forms of energy like caffeine.

7. Hormonal (women). When the body experiences menstruation, pregnancy or menopause, fluctuating testosterone and estrogen levels may cause strange cravings.

8. De-evolution. When things are going extremely well, sometimes a self-sabotage syndrome happens. We crave foods that throw us off, thus creating more cravings to balance ourselves. This often happens from low blood sugar and may result in strong mood swings.

Top Ten Ways to Increase Your Energy

  1. Reduce or eliminate caffeine. The ups and downs of caffeine include dehydration and blood sugar ups and downs, making mood swings more frequent.
  • Drink water. Most Americans are chronically dehydrated. Before you go to sugar or caffeine, have a glass of water and wait a few minutes to see what happens. Caution: soft drinks are now America’s number one source of added sugar.
  • Eat dark leafy green vegetables. Green is associated with spring, the time of renewal and refreshing, vital energy. Greens are full of vitamins and nutrients and great for improving circulation, lifting the spirit, purifying the blood and strengthening the immune system. Broccoli, collards, bok choy, kale, mustard greens, broccoli rabe, arugula, and dandelion greens are some of the many to choose from.
  • Use gentle sweets. Avoid sugar and chemicalized artificial sweeteners. Use gentle sweeteners like maple syrup, brown rice syrup, agave nectar, and stevia. Also eat sweet vegetables such as yams, carrots, and beets.
  • Get physical activity. Start with simple activities, like walking or yoga—start with 10 minutes a day and increase.
  • Get more sleep and rest and relaxation. When you are tired or stressed, your body will crave energy. These cravings are often a result of being sleep-deprived, going to bed late, waking up early, for months and years on end.
  • Evaluate the amount of animal food you eat. Eating too much meat, dairy, chicken and eggs can lead to low energy. Experiment. Respect your body’s individuality.
  • Take time for yourself. Find activities that restore your energy, such as a walk, a bath, a museum, a movie or whatever you enjoy, and schedule a weekly date with yourself to do these things!
  • Get in touch with your spirituality. We are spiritual beings in a physical world. Find ways to get in touch with your spiritual side, be it meditating, dancing, drawing, church, temple or being in nature.
  • Get rid of relationships that drain you. People can drain you of your energy. It doesn’t mean that they are bad, but it is good to notice who drains you and why. See if you can transform those relationships by communicating and setting boundaries or end the relationship.